I know writing this blog post is going to cause quite a bit of controversy, so let's get this out of the way: I am intelligent, not what society deems "ghetto," and from what I am told, and given where I work in the television business, I am attractive. Why is that necessary to say? Black men don't like black women. Yes, I said it. I don't mean all black men, but it's true of many, and it's a growing problem.